Passing through Nowhere Land...Maybe I'm the only one, but sometimes when you feel you are suppose to do something in life, it doesn't always feel like you are making progress. One minute you know exactly what you're doing and where you're at and then, without warning, you get this feeling of being completely out of your element and in the middle of "Nowhere Land".
As many of you know, we have been involved in the adoption process for well over three years now. Its not just a noble idea for us, its a calling. And it not only involves us simply finding our kids and opening our heart and home to them, but to join in with those in the Body of Christ who are encouraging others to get involved in some capacity. Whether its adopting, supporting an agency or orphanage, sponsoring a child or encouraging a friend that we know is in the adoption process, we know that the world cannot afford to lose these little ones to our fears, apathy and indifference.
At times it has felt as if we were making progress and at other times it has felt like we were at ground zero...yet again! The words of Rudyard Kipling's poem, "IF", "if you can...risk it all on one turn of pitch-and-toss, and lose, and start again at your beginnings and never breathe a word about your loss..." more than capture the feeling that we've had over and over. In this process of finding our kids we can go to bed one night knowing that God's got it all under control, convinced that tomorrow the social worker is going to call, only to wake up the next morning in Nowhere Land "starting over again". But then something beautiful happens. God will send something or somebody into our path that offers the strength and energy to stay the course. Recently, I experienced one such moment.
I was in a grocery store, minding my own business, waiting for the deli people to slice my roast beef, when a young lady approached me. She began to tell me how the course of her and her husband's life was changed dramatically in response to something we had said. At first, I had no idea what she was talking about and she thought that perhaps she had mistaken me for somebody else. But then she went on to say that she and her husband were involved in the adoption of a sibling group. What persuaded them to take the leap was a presentation we had done in our local church last year. To be more precise, it was the second presentation that persuaded them to pursue adoption. As she recounted to me, after the first presentation, she and her husband began to pray about adopting. One of their prayers went something like "Lord, if you are wanting us to adopt, then let the man do another presentation". To their amazement, the next Sunday, we did a second presentation about the need for families to adopt. With tears streaming down her face she thanked me for the presentation and the encouragement to step out and open their hearts and homes to parent "the fatherless". And in that instant, I went from wondering what in the world we were thinking about when we answered our call to adopt, to a place where it all made sense. Our frustrations and disappointments melted and for a moment I had one of those genuine "rejoice with those that rejoice" moments. It is such moments that remind me that a Being far more wise than I orchestrates life and fits all the pieces of the puzzle together for each and every one of us.
We have shared many such orchestrated moments with each other and with many of you along our path to finding our kids. We want to take a moment to thank each of you who have shared with us. We can only say thank you and keep it coming. Continue to share with us your stories of how God has touched you in some capacity to serve the fatherless of this world. Its the difference between settling in "Nowhere Land" and just passing through. God bless you and let me just close this blog with the words of James who said,
Pure and undefiled religion before God and the Father is this: to visit orphans and widows in their trouble, and to keep oneself unspotted from the world.
until we talk again...
